Amy Rimmington writes this heart-warming tribute to her friend, Daisy Strange (Dorter, 2009-2013). Daisy, who was a teacher and former England Hockey player, sadly passed away earlier this year after being diagnosed with cancer.

Be more like Daisy!

From my first day in Dorter, Daisy took me under her wing and looked out for me. How lucky I was! 

We had such fun and there was never a dull moment, from playing in Matron’s wheelie laundry basket to regularly giving Mr Leggett grief about never making his own cup of tea! Boarding house parties were fabulous, dressed as Sumo Wrestlers or Red Indians and how we danced the night away. We studied similar subjects, shared many lessons, and discovered it was very difficult to sneak an animal on to your knee in class, without the occasional squeak giving the game away! Mischievous, but fun, and how we laughed.

Some of the most enjoyable times shared were on the Sports field, where Daisy captained our House team magnificently. She was so talented, so motivated and yet someone who had great emotional intelligence. She could understand how others felt, see things from their point of view and help all of us to do our very best. You could see she was in her element, so much so, that no matter what, you always went into a game wanting to win just as much as she did. It just rubbed off on you, her positive and competitive spirit, and no matter what the outcome was, she would always have a smile on her face. She taught us how to win and lose with grace and good humour.

We spent many hours down at the stables with our horses and going on rides to the woods, chatting endlessly and most often getting lost! Animal management outings were our favourite. Daisy said she could speak to the animals and to be honest I would not have put it past her, the way they acted around her. Not only did every human want to be Daisy’s friend but animals too!

I owe my best school memories to Daisy, and was lucky enough to keep in contact with her after school. I will never forget she was there for me when I was at my lowest in School, and I just cannot put into words how much she made all her friends feel so very special.

Daisy, I will remember you with warmth in my heart and a big smile on my face. Keep shining, this world needs your light. I will never forget your infectious smile and your contagious laugh. We should all be more like Daisy and "Live life like Daisy!"

We will all remember this beautiful, brave and talented soul. Fly high girl.

Dorter House have raised nearly £3,000 for the Royal Marsden Hospital where Daisy was treated. Donations can be made through their website at royalmarsden.nhs.uk.